4 Sultry Bondage Tips for a Sexy Escort Outcall Date!
For the friskiest of clients out there, bondage can easily spice their sex lives up. Although service on its own, bondage is something most escorts do and do right. However, if you are a newbie to the fetish, you might want to learn a bit more about how bondage works in the bedroom.
As an exclusive pleasure to play around with your favourite escort, here are 4 tips that will make any bondage session sexy!
1. Negotiation and Consent
The first thing you want to do before trying bondage with an escort date is to ensure consent on her part. To do that, you will have to talk the scenario out and see where you meet halfway. When discussing bondage, mention your boundaries and limits, as well as the toys you are comfortable with using. If your escort is uncomfortable with doing something you want, please be respectful enough to take her no as a no.
2. Safe Words
Part of the negotiating your way into bondage is coming up with safe words for your experience. Or, in your case, you can even come up with a few just to ensure you recognize the intensity of the kink every time. For instance, you can decide on three safe words- ‘green’, ‘yellow’, and ‘red’- with the green meaning ‘still safe’ and red meaning ‘time to cease the action’.
3. A Mindful and Bodily Exam
Before even getting to the tying up part, ensure you know your date’s strengths and weaknesses. For instance, if your escort doesn’t feel good kneeling, have her lie in a bed. It goes both ways, this mindfulness, and it helps to check in with each other for a better experience. If anyone needs a limb released from the ties, by all means, give yourselves a break. At the end of the day, it is all about making the most of your experience.
4. The Rope
Now, using the proper type of rope is what will ultimately introduce or take away the comfort from your experience. According to bondage experts, elastic bands and ropes are not designed for beginners, as they might damage the skin. What you can use instead is a steadier, more manageable rope. Ideally, work with nylon rope, as it slides more easily and provides smoothness. Once you master the tool, you can think about using cotton or hemp rope.
Source: https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/bondage-beginner-tips-bdsm-advice#slide-9
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